Social anxiety disorder, also called social phobia, is a long-term and overwhelming fear of social situations.
It's a common problem that usually starts during the teenage years. It can be very distressing and have a big impact on your life.
For some people it gets better as they get older. But for many people it does not go away on its own without treatment.
It's important to get help if you are having symptoms. There are treatments that can help you manage it.
Symptoms of social anxiety
Social anxiety is more than shyness. It's a fear that does not go away and affects everyday activities, self confidence, relationships and work or school life.
Many people occasionally worry about social situations, but someone with social anxiety feels overly worried before, during and after them.
You may have social anxiety if you:
- Worry about everyday activities, such as meeting strangers, starting conversations, speaking on the phone, working or shopping
- Avoid or worry a lot about social activities, such as group conversations, eating with company and parties
- Always worry about doing something you think is embarrassing, such as blushing, sweating or appearing incompetent
- Find it difficult to do things when others are watching – you may feel like you're being watched and judged all the time
- Fear being criticised, avoid eye contact or have low self-esteem
- Often have symptoms like feeling sick, sweating, trembling or a pounding heartbeat (palpitations)
- Have panic attacks, where you have an overwhelming sense of fear and anxiety, usually only for a few minutes
When to get help for social anxiety
It's a good idea to see a GP if you think you have social anxiety, especially if it's having a big impact on your life.
It's a common problem and there are treatments that can help.
Asking for help can be difficult, but a GP will be aware that many people struggle with social anxiety and will try to put you at ease.
They'll ask you about your feelings, behaviours and symptoms to find out about your anxiety in social situations.
If they think you could have social anxiety, you'll be referred to a mental health specialist to have a full assessment and talk about treatments.
You can also refer yourself directly to an NHS psychological therapies service (IAPT) without a referral from a GP.
Things you can try to overcome social anxiety
Self-help can help reduce social anxiety and you might find it a useful first step before trying other treatments.
The following tips may help:
- Try to understand more about your anxiety – by thinking about or writing down what goes through your mind and how you behave in certain social situations, it can help to keep a diary
- Try some relaxation techniques, such as breathing exercises for stress
- Break down challenging situations into smaller parts and work on feeling more relaxed with each part
- Try to focus on what people are saying rather than just assuming the worst
Read more about anxiety, fear and panic and how to manage them.
You may also find it useful to read an NHS self-help guide for social anxiety
Read more on the NHS website: Social anxiety disorder (social phobia)